When I Miss You, By Author Cornelia Maude Spelman (Ages 2-4) - Paperback

Every child knows that heavy, achy feeling when Mom or Dad has to leave. "When I Miss You" by Cornelia Maude Spelman gives that feeling a name — and gently shows little ones that it's okay, and that they won't be alone while they wait.

Told through the eyes of a young guinea pig navigating the big emotions of separation, this book validates what children feel without minimizing it: "Missing you is a heavy, achy feeling. I don't like missing you. I want you right now!" But it also offers real comfort — reminding children that trusted caregivers can snuggle, play, and keep them warm until the people they love come back.

Written by Cornelia Maude Spelman, a former child and family therapist, this book carries the quiet wisdom of someone who truly understands how children process big feelings. It's a reassuring read-aloud for toddlers and preschoolers, and a helpful tool for parents navigating daycare drop-offs, work trips, or any time apart feels too long.

✏️ About the Author & Illustrator

• Cornelia Maude Spelman is a former therapist who worked with children and families. She now devotes her time to writing and lives with her husband in Illinois.
  
  
• Kathy Parkinson is an illustrator and mother of three. She lives in Massachusetts.
  
  

📣 What Critics Are Saying

• "Few picture books deal with this common childhood trial in such a helpful way, acknowledging the emotions and providing reassurance… A good resource for parents and a natural choice for children who will take comfort in finding their emotions mirrored in a picture book." — Booklist
  
  
• 🏅 Oppenheim Toy Portfolio Gold Seal Award 2005